Cumcontrol, or Cum Control, is an interesting sexual technique related to ejaculation control. Do you really know what cumcontrol is? Should I try this method? Let’s find out right here!
Cumcontrol is known as an orgasm control technique. Currently, there is no mainstream concept for cumcontrol. “Cum” is defined as sperm, or ejaculate in slang. “Control” means control.
Thus, cumcontrol is understood as ejaculation under the control of the partner. In other words, when participating in the rules of cum control, you can only get to the top when your partner allows it.
What is Cumcontrol?
Cum control is technically Edging (or Peaking, Surfing) an orgasm control technique. Widely known in the gay community, many people mistakenly believe that cumcontrol is only for gay couples.
In fact, the rules of cumcontrol are open to all couples, even solo experiences. However, it is still more common in men.
What are the rules of cum control? To participate, players will be continuously stimulated (or self-stimulated) sexually until they are ready to climax. At this moment, the stimuli are stopped. Participants need to wait for the signal from their partner to be able to restart the stimulation process until a true orgasm is reached.
The purpose of cum control is to make sex last longer, prolong orgasm, and make orgasm more intense.
How long should Cumcontrol last?
This depends on your personal decision if you want to control ejaculation alone; or by mutual consent if you do it with your partner.
When to apply cumcontrol in love? This technique can be used as an interesting foreplay. Also, some people use it as a prelude to the anal experience.
What are the benefits of cumcontrol?
According to the share of sex therapist Vanessa Marin Controlling and prolonging the time of orgasm brings outstanding benefits such as:
- Prolong sex
- Makes orgasms more intense
- Increases confidence of cumcontrol participants (especially men)
- Make it easier for female partners to orgasm
For men, cumcontrol helps to increase stamina and prolong sexual intercourse.
If you suffer from premature ejaculation, this ejaculation control technique can prolong sex before orgasm and ejaculation. This can improve confidence and sexual pleasure for men. At the same time, cum control is also an enjoyable experience for their partner.
Research showed that the most basic stop–start techniques when engaging with cumcontrol can increase sexual stamina in the short term.
However, cumcontrol is NOT a permanent and radical treatment for premature ejaculation. If you are having problems with premature ejaculation for a long time, it is best to see your doctor for treatment.
What are the risks of cumcontrol?
Currently, there are no studies showing that cumcontrol is harmful to the health of participants. This includes stop-start techniques, or similar methods to delay orgasm, improve sexual stamina.
At the same time, there is no evidence that cum control causes semen to “build up” leading to retrograde ejaculation, or that it puts pressure on the testicles.
The secret to trying Cumcontrol safely at home
You may experience cumcontrol during sex as well as while masturbating. Here is a guide on how to safely cumcontrol you can try:
Instructions on how to cum control when masturbating
How to easily control ejaculation during masturbation? If you’re a cumcontrol beginner, you can try it out for yourself before joining your partner. Both men and women can try this cumcontrol technique for themselves.
How to do cum control while masturbating:
- Stimulate yourself the way you want until you’re ready to orgasm
- Stop sexual stimulation, or reduce intensity, or change angle of stimulation
- Wait until you no longer feel orgasms
- Get back to the aphrodisiac and enjoy the sensation of orgasm.
Instructions on how to cumcontrol during sex
With the technique of controlling orgasm during intercourse, you can set hot challenges for your partner, and vice versa. The person doing the cum control challenge gets to the top only with their partner’s permission.
Similar to the instructions above, you can perform cumcontrol for your partner during sex as follows:
- Active sexual stimulation: oral sex, or penetrative sex, or masturbation for a partner, or stimulation with a sex toy.
- When your partner is about to orgasm, stop arousing; or massage, massage into other sensitive areas (you can try: nipples, neck, thighs, abdomen, …); or change to another sexual position.
- Once your partner is past the climax, you can either repeat the process above, or let your partner do the cumcontrol for you.
You and your partner can repeat the above cumcontrol process as many times as you like, until you feel ready to orgasm and ejaculate. It is important that both partners discuss and agree before having sex to avoid either feeling disappointed in the experience.
Recipes for you
If you’re trying to excite your partner, pay attention to your partner’s body language and expressions to see how aroused they are. Knowing when to start and stop cuddling will make you more professional in the eyes of your partner.
5 techniques to control repeated ejaculation
Here are some tips for you to experience a sexually satisfying cumcontrol.
1. Cumcontrol secret for men: Start-stop technique
The method is simply to stop petting or stimulating and then start again after a few seconds. You should apply this technique near the climax to get the best results.
2. Cum control secret for men: The pause-squeeze technique
How to start as instructed above. When you feel almost ready to ejaculate, you (or your partner) squeeze the end of the penis; Keep squeezing for a few seconds until the urge to ejaculate passes.
3. Kegel technique for cumcontrol for both men and women
When you’re close to climax, try Kegel exercises – exercises that strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. It’s very simple to do: when you slow down or stop stimulating, implement Kegels.
4. Use sex tools when cumcontrol for both men and women
To shorten the wait time after the stimulation has stopped, you can try experimenting with love aids to increase the enjoyment of the sexual experience. Some suggestions for sex toys for you: rabbit ear vibrator, anal plug, anal necklace, penis bracelet…
5. The technique of “redirection” to control ejaculation for both men and women
Softer forms of touch elsewhere on the body are techniques you should try. When you stop stimulating your partner’s girl or boy, you can try:
- Deep tongue kiss
- Massaging breasts and nipples
- yoni massage
You or/and your sexual partner can experience cumcontrol as a new and exciting sexual experiment without affecting your overall health. However, do not forget to use condoms and birth control pills, to protect your own health.
